Perhaps the first thing you ought to do when you feel that your wife does not love you anymore is to ensure that there is some truth in what you believe and it is not just a temporary mood swing or a figment of your imagination. Once sure, you need to talk to her first and take her into confidence regarding why she is feeling this way and what has made her turn against you.

There are several aspects of the relationship that could have soured over the years and making your wife feel disillusioned about you or your love for her. These include you taking her for granted; your indifference to her needs; feelings of constant hurt and many such. Perhaps such situations have continued for a long time making her change her feelings about you.

If the reasons for your falling out of grace are one or all of the above, then the first thing you need to do is to sincerely apologize to her for your hurting attitudes. Your sincerity should show on your face and your communications with her.

Once you make promises to her to change the way you are and make corrections in your behavior, make sure that you keep your promises. There is hardly any point in showering her with gifts, etc. Love her sincerely and show her that you mean every word of what you say.

Over and above changing your attitude and behavior towards her, try and spend more time with her and share her responsibilities in the house. This goes a long way in pacifying a wife.

Take that extra step to make her understand that she is still the most special person in your life. Every woman needs some extra attention and your wife is no exception. Your sincerity of efforts would surely change the scenario and the concept of your wife does not love you anymore would soon be a memory of the past.