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How To Love My Wife - Being the Man She Needs

Are you the type of guy who's always hanging out with the boys and you're not comfortable showing emotions which makes it hard for you to love your wife? Do you get uncomfortable around all that lovey dovey talk and you think you need a better way to love your wife? Has she complained about your inattentiveness and lack of emotions and you need to find how to love your wife the way she needs and deserves to be loved.
Many men are great at being the provider, the strong one and the one who is stoic and unmoved.
But women need a little more from their man than that.
If you really want to know how to love your wife in a way that will make her happy, read on to get a woman's perspective on love, marriage and the happy wife.
Special Treatment Needless to say, women love to be treated in that special way only her man can.
She wants to know that, above all else, she matters the most to you.
That doesn't mean you should ditch everything you have, drop your friends and dedicate every waking moment to her.
But think of doing little things that will remind her that she's special and important to you.
Take a moment in your day to call her just to hear her voice.
Pay close attention to what she has to say to you at the end of the day and even question her to show your degree of interest.
Buy her a little something that you know she's enjoy, even if it's just her favorite jujubes.
Understanding the Female In addition to feeling special, she needs to know that you care about her.
If she's feeling lousy one day and all you can think to do is gripe because dinner's not ready or you can't find your favorite shirt because she hasn't washed it yet, you're being selfish and unreasonable.
Let her know you care about how bad she's feeling and be there to tend to her.
Also let her know that whatever chores she usually tends to will be taken care of by you.
The simple act of sharing in the household duties is hugely important in a relationship.
If she feels she's always having to carry the weight of the chores on her back, she can come to resent you for slacking off all the time.
Secret Getaway As a couple, you both need to getaway from it all once in a while.
Whether it's a date every Friday night (you don't have to necessarily go out, but plan for a night alone at home) a weekend spent at the cottage with no distractions or a week or two in the Caribbean, make the effort to tend to the loving and romantic side of your relationship.
Couples who take time to themselves, away from work, responsibility, kids, household chores, are far more likely to succeed and be happy.
Your wife is reluctant to leave the kids behind? Remind her that her kids need to have parents who are happy together and who take their marriage seriously.
Her kids deserve to feel secure in knowing that their parents truly love each other and will be together for a long time.
Love your wife in an honest and frank way and she'll know of all the emotions you have for her.


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