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What Men Want In A Woman: Woman Who Multiply, Not Add

What men want is a woman who knows that she multiples her man, she doesn't add up to complete him.
Whoa, whoa, hold it there Jack.
What on earth are you talking about? OK, let's try and clear things up.
I'm just talking about a little analogy that a lot of people use.
The idea that two people "complete each other" or two people are like "two halves to make a whole" is stupid.
Doesn't that sort of imply that the people were "incomplete" to begin with? Still don't understand why this could potentially spell out a divorce in the making? I'll explain everything below.
1.
Are we incomplete? So, this saying implies that people are incomplete, right? Even though the meaning is more romantic than anything, for people who do take it seriously, I'll tell you what it's actually mean to mean.
It means that you're flawed as an individual.
OK, nothing new.
Everyone's flawed.
We all know that.
How about this then? This saying implies that we need someone else to make us perfect.
2.
We need to be multipliers, not adders If we apply some basic maths to this saying, that's like saying 0.
5 +0.
5 =1, where each half is one person.
So each person is incomplete.
That means that the areas that they are lacking in could be things that their spouse provides.
Isn't it a better idea if we multiplied when we married? Ie.
1x1=1? That implies that we're complete as individuals.
We don't desperately need someone to "complete" us, but instead, we simply marrying for love.
That's how it should be like, right? 3.
Are you complete? Now it's just up to you to ask yourself, are you complete as an individual? Do you consider yourself a half or a one? If you're a half, then ask yourself, did you get married to your man because you felt like marriage was a vehicle to achieve something that you didn't have? Maybe you did marry for love, but maybe there were other aspects involved.
Nevertheless, now that you're already married, it's not too late to complete yourself and become a one.
Love your man for who he is, and more importantly, love yourself for who you are.
What men want in a woman is someone who multiplies with them to make one.
One individual times one individual equals to one couple of pretty perfect people who are married for love and for nothing else.
Do you multiply or do you add?


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