Preparation

• 1). Create a list of positive reasons for the move. Even if you don't actually refer to the list during the discussion, it's good to clarify your reasons.
  
  
• 2). Plan the move. Develop a detailed plan for after the move so that your parents will know that you've planned ahead. Plan how you'll find a job, a home and transportation as well as making a timeline for the move.
  
  
• 3). Realize what kind of help you will need. Think about whether you're expecting your parents to help you in any way, such as storing stuff for you or giving you a ride to the airport. Write a list so that you don't forget anything.
  
  

Communication

• 1). Find quality time with your parents. Choose a time when no one needs to be rushing out the door or is otherwise occupied.
  
  
• 2). Start by appreciating all they've done for you.
  
  
• 3). Explain all the good reasons you need to move.
  
  
• 4). Tell them that you're moving. Unless you're a minor or need a lot of financial help for the move, you don't need their permission. You do, however, want their blessing.
  
  
• 5). Allow them to ask you questions. Remember that they're not attacking you; they're just worried and will miss you very much. Try to answer them honestly.
  
  
• 6). Ask them for what you'll need from them. Make sure to send them thank you cards for their help.