Is it Possible to Reverse the Situation When Your Husband is Emotionally Distant?
The problem with most women is that when they have a doubt, it does not take too long for it to become a conviction.
When you think that your husband is emotionally distant, chances are that you have already made up your mind regarding the reasons for his changed behavior.
Perhaps the first thing to do is to give him the benefit of doubt before you draw up conclusions, many of which may have illogical or no basis at all.
When you think that your husband seems to display an emotional disinterest, it could well be that something is disturbing him temporarily.
The other home truth about such situations is that it happens to every marriage, once in while.
Perhaps, you too could have acted indifferently several times, only that he did not talk about it or sulk.
If you believe in the power of communication, rely on it in such situations when you are getting a feeling that your husband is emotionally distant.
Talk to him and express your concern about the existing situation.
Do not approach him with vague accusations or cite remote examples when he did not react according to your expectations.
You need to have some concrete examples, when he has behaved differently.
Talk to him about the issues which might be bothering him but not talking about them.
If you make him feel confident and relaxed, he ought to share his thoughts with you sooner than later.
Coming back to your question, yes, it is possible to reverse the situation when you feel that your husband appears to be emotionally disinterested.
But to reverse any situation in a marriage, it takes both of you to be equally committed to the issues.
Once he starts talking, be prepared to hear some allegations and accusations which he has retained within himself all this while.
Perhaps you had taken him too much for granted; said rude and hurtful things; bruised his ego or even insulted him with your words or actions.
You have to take a long, critical look at your own actions too.
In stead of throwing counter allegations or blames at him for all that is going wrong in your life, apologize sincerely.
Take his changed behavior as a wake-up call to sit up and take notice of things going wrong with your marriage.
Finally, when you think that your husband is emotionally distant, think positive and act maturely rather than being led by misplaced and baseless doubts and apprehensions.
When you think that your husband is emotionally distant, chances are that you have already made up your mind regarding the reasons for his changed behavior.
Perhaps the first thing to do is to give him the benefit of doubt before you draw up conclusions, many of which may have illogical or no basis at all.
When you think that your husband seems to display an emotional disinterest, it could well be that something is disturbing him temporarily.
The other home truth about such situations is that it happens to every marriage, once in while.
Perhaps, you too could have acted indifferently several times, only that he did not talk about it or sulk.
If you believe in the power of communication, rely on it in such situations when you are getting a feeling that your husband is emotionally distant.
Talk to him and express your concern about the existing situation.
Do not approach him with vague accusations or cite remote examples when he did not react according to your expectations.
You need to have some concrete examples, when he has behaved differently.
Talk to him about the issues which might be bothering him but not talking about them.
If you make him feel confident and relaxed, he ought to share his thoughts with you sooner than later.
Coming back to your question, yes, it is possible to reverse the situation when you feel that your husband appears to be emotionally disinterested.
But to reverse any situation in a marriage, it takes both of you to be equally committed to the issues.
Once he starts talking, be prepared to hear some allegations and accusations which he has retained within himself all this while.
Perhaps you had taken him too much for granted; said rude and hurtful things; bruised his ego or even insulted him with your words or actions.
You have to take a long, critical look at your own actions too.
In stead of throwing counter allegations or blames at him for all that is going wrong in your life, apologize sincerely.
Take his changed behavior as a wake-up call to sit up and take notice of things going wrong with your marriage.
Finally, when you think that your husband is emotionally distant, think positive and act maturely rather than being led by misplaced and baseless doubts and apprehensions.
