Friendship and the Conversation Around a Fire Pit
A friend is defined as "a person you know well and regard with affection and trust.
" The formation of the affection and trust takes good conversation, shared interests, and time spent together.
Here are a few things that can create a spirit of friendship and help cement the bond: 1.
Going to movies 2.
Having coffee together 3.
Talking over dinner 4.
Outdoor activities: Camping, fishing, golfing I would like to focus on the conversation aspect of friendships, but I did want to briefly mention the more active ventures like camping and the less talkative activities like watching a movie with a potential friend.
These shared experiences are a quiet conversation all their own.
That said, conversation is still the subject of the day.
Certain shared activities lend themselves more to good conversation.
Dinner, coffee, or having a drink together allows friends to further their bond and get to know each other better.
It can get more creative than that, as in the case of a nice night around a fire pit.
No one can quantify the number of friendships that have been born because of a beautiful night, a fire pit, and a great conversation, but I'll take a guess and say that it's more than a few thousand friendships.
The reasons for the bond that forms while two people talk around a fire pit are simple.
The things that happen to emotions and thoughts aren't so simple but that's not what matters right now.
1.
Atmosphere: People bond better when the atmosphere is relaxed and when they're most able to feel comfortable.
2.
Warmth: Friendship is warmth and the feeling of warmth accompanies a fire pit.
3.
Beauty: Friendship is all about sharing life's most beautiful gifts together and appreciating them through conversation.
The beauty of the fire pit can enhance relaxation and make conversation more memorable and pleasant.
4.
Safety: Two friends sitting together near a fire pit will experience an increase in the feeling of safety, which can become associated with friendship itself.
Feeling safe with another person a rare and memorable occasion and will always strengthen the feeling of togetherness and protection that friendship inspires.
There are many ways to build affection and trust with a friend, but the most important way is to simply talk to each other and enjoy the world around you every chance you get.
This is how people know each other.
" The formation of the affection and trust takes good conversation, shared interests, and time spent together.
Here are a few things that can create a spirit of friendship and help cement the bond: 1.
Going to movies 2.
Having coffee together 3.
Talking over dinner 4.
Outdoor activities: Camping, fishing, golfing I would like to focus on the conversation aspect of friendships, but I did want to briefly mention the more active ventures like camping and the less talkative activities like watching a movie with a potential friend.
These shared experiences are a quiet conversation all their own.
That said, conversation is still the subject of the day.
Certain shared activities lend themselves more to good conversation.
Dinner, coffee, or having a drink together allows friends to further their bond and get to know each other better.
It can get more creative than that, as in the case of a nice night around a fire pit.
No one can quantify the number of friendships that have been born because of a beautiful night, a fire pit, and a great conversation, but I'll take a guess and say that it's more than a few thousand friendships.
The reasons for the bond that forms while two people talk around a fire pit are simple.
The things that happen to emotions and thoughts aren't so simple but that's not what matters right now.
1.
Atmosphere: People bond better when the atmosphere is relaxed and when they're most able to feel comfortable.
2.
Warmth: Friendship is warmth and the feeling of warmth accompanies a fire pit.
3.
Beauty: Friendship is all about sharing life's most beautiful gifts together and appreciating them through conversation.
The beauty of the fire pit can enhance relaxation and make conversation more memorable and pleasant.
4.
Safety: Two friends sitting together near a fire pit will experience an increase in the feeling of safety, which can become associated with friendship itself.
Feeling safe with another person a rare and memorable occasion and will always strengthen the feeling of togetherness and protection that friendship inspires.
There are many ways to build affection and trust with a friend, but the most important way is to simply talk to each other and enjoy the world around you every chance you get.
This is how people know each other.
