A Husband Is Not an ATM Machine
After 8 years of marriage my wife told me that she was moving out. I said go ahead. She said "ok". Then a week later she came to me and said "I'm not moving out, you move out". That is when it all got complicated. In this case it was Facedrink that she loved more than me. The one that I love has given her love to a ridiculous shot. My words of wisdom would be this: If your spouse is playing with a bottle more then she is playing with you THERE IS A PROBLEM and you should talk to her about it immediately.
To me that was it. I left. I was devastated and humiliated and afraid of the future. I'd be divorced and alone. Away from my kids. I just don't trust her. I wish I had never met her. A liar who treated me like nothing. If we never had kids I would have been gone a long time ago.
Today, I live alone while I pay for the house she lives in, what an unfair world! She kept all my things and took most of my income. She followed me, vandalized my car, sat in front of my house. After a few weeks of this I returned some of her bad behavior. She then called a woman's protection service and I was arrested for stalking then put in jail, I lost my job and insurance. Being diabetic my health rapidly went down hill. I became disabled. My child support went into arrears while waiting to get into court. She is a RN making 100,000 dollars a year, I live on less than 1000 dollars a month. She is a liar and a greedy, controlling *****. Recently she took me to court for back support and the judge awarded her 100 dollars a month. I keep hoping that what goes around comes around!
To conclude, we are definitely living in a society where a Husband is seen as an ATM Machine and I'm currently suffering from it. There is a true injustice in our legal system regarding child support and the Dissomaster guideline that is currently being used. It is unfair, it reduces the non-custodial parent to poverty level and is basically privatized welfare to the custodial parent. Laywers and judges have screwed up our Family Law system. Nothing will ever be done to change it because the bureaucrats do not want it to change. The system is not about taking care of your child, but rather the needs of the person whom you divorced. There is no accountability in the system and the non-custodial parent (mostly men) don't think they are getting a fair shake and they aren't.
You can help me fight this injustice by joining my facebook page named "A Husband is not an ATM Machine".
To me that was it. I left. I was devastated and humiliated and afraid of the future. I'd be divorced and alone. Away from my kids. I just don't trust her. I wish I had never met her. A liar who treated me like nothing. If we never had kids I would have been gone a long time ago.
Today, I live alone while I pay for the house she lives in, what an unfair world! She kept all my things and took most of my income. She followed me, vandalized my car, sat in front of my house. After a few weeks of this I returned some of her bad behavior. She then called a woman's protection service and I was arrested for stalking then put in jail, I lost my job and insurance. Being diabetic my health rapidly went down hill. I became disabled. My child support went into arrears while waiting to get into court. She is a RN making 100,000 dollars a year, I live on less than 1000 dollars a month. She is a liar and a greedy, controlling *****. Recently she took me to court for back support and the judge awarded her 100 dollars a month. I keep hoping that what goes around comes around!
To conclude, we are definitely living in a society where a Husband is seen as an ATM Machine and I'm currently suffering from it. There is a true injustice in our legal system regarding child support and the Dissomaster guideline that is currently being used. It is unfair, it reduces the non-custodial parent to poverty level and is basically privatized welfare to the custodial parent. Laywers and judges have screwed up our Family Law system. Nothing will ever be done to change it because the bureaucrats do not want it to change. The system is not about taking care of your child, but rather the needs of the person whom you divorced. There is no accountability in the system and the non-custodial parent (mostly men) don't think they are getting a fair shake and they aren't.
You can help me fight this injustice by joining my facebook page named "A Husband is not an ATM Machine".
