Afterplay - What You Should Do
Afterplay is the post-ejaculation romantic activities partners do to each other.
Unfortunately, this subject is not discussed enough on the Internet to date.
This fact makes a lot of couples undermine its value, or not even be aware of it.
This article will suggest romantic activities for men to do to their partners during afterplay.
1.
Keep gazing her in the eye.
Continue doing this for a few minutes.
Don't stop.
No breaks.
This will shake her from the inside.
Some men may think this is something ridiculous to do.
But ask any woman and she will tell you how effective this eye-gazing is.
2.
Talk with her about relevant issues.
Plan your next shopping trip.
Discuss your next vacation plans.
You may also talk about something in the past like your honeymoon or how you proposed.
What you talk about should be romantic and relevant to your relationship.
This is what women like to hear.
Therefore, avoid discussing problems at this time.
3.
Praise her.
Tell her that she was great in bed and that you want to repeat this over and over in the near future.
Your praise can be general - like the previous examples - or specific.
You can tell her that you like this new sex position that you just tried.
You can complement her on how soft her skin today is or on her new hairstyle.
Believe it or not, she may enjoy this praise more than the sex.
4.
Cuddle her.
This does not mean to put her head on your arm and fall asleep shortly afterwards.
Instead, cuddling should be an active and conscious activity.
Move your hand on her back up and down.
Touch her hair gently.
And while you are doing this, whisper some sweet words into her ear.
I bet she will like it.
5.
Massage is a great idea for afterplay.
You may massage each other in turn.
If you massage her gently, she may relax and eventually fall asleep.
Bingo! Mission accomplished.
6.
Shower together.
Play games.
Tickle her.
One caveat though: if this is her first time with you in the shower, she may be a bit shy.
Respect her feelings, and when you feel she is uncomfortable, leave.
7.
Have a meal if you are hungry.
You may have a nice meal at a restaurant or under the moonlight.
If you enjoy cooking, cook a light meal together.
Go for the meal that she likes.
Complement her cooking skills.
However, make sure that you do the dishes before you leave, or at least offer to give her a hand.
8.
Be funny.
Tell her some jokes or funny stories.
You may need to prepare these jokes and stories in advance.
You also need to check her taste in humor and what kind of jokes she likes.
Always remember what interests women the most is what most men may consider as nothing.
Do your best to understand how she thinks.
Pay attention when she talks whether to you or to her female friends.
The above points are tips to get you started with your afterplay skills.
Try each one of these tips out.
Be cautious though.
What works for others may not work for you.
Once you find one or more tips suitable, elaborate on them creatively.
Unfortunately, this subject is not discussed enough on the Internet to date.
This fact makes a lot of couples undermine its value, or not even be aware of it.
This article will suggest romantic activities for men to do to their partners during afterplay.
1.
Keep gazing her in the eye.
Continue doing this for a few minutes.
Don't stop.
No breaks.
This will shake her from the inside.
Some men may think this is something ridiculous to do.
But ask any woman and she will tell you how effective this eye-gazing is.
2.
Talk with her about relevant issues.
Plan your next shopping trip.
Discuss your next vacation plans.
You may also talk about something in the past like your honeymoon or how you proposed.
What you talk about should be romantic and relevant to your relationship.
This is what women like to hear.
Therefore, avoid discussing problems at this time.
3.
Praise her.
Tell her that she was great in bed and that you want to repeat this over and over in the near future.
Your praise can be general - like the previous examples - or specific.
You can tell her that you like this new sex position that you just tried.
You can complement her on how soft her skin today is or on her new hairstyle.
Believe it or not, she may enjoy this praise more than the sex.
4.
Cuddle her.
This does not mean to put her head on your arm and fall asleep shortly afterwards.
Instead, cuddling should be an active and conscious activity.
Move your hand on her back up and down.
Touch her hair gently.
And while you are doing this, whisper some sweet words into her ear.
I bet she will like it.
5.
Massage is a great idea for afterplay.
You may massage each other in turn.
If you massage her gently, she may relax and eventually fall asleep.
Bingo! Mission accomplished.
6.
Shower together.
Play games.
Tickle her.
One caveat though: if this is her first time with you in the shower, she may be a bit shy.
Respect her feelings, and when you feel she is uncomfortable, leave.
7.
Have a meal if you are hungry.
You may have a nice meal at a restaurant or under the moonlight.
If you enjoy cooking, cook a light meal together.
Go for the meal that she likes.
Complement her cooking skills.
However, make sure that you do the dishes before you leave, or at least offer to give her a hand.
8.
Be funny.
Tell her some jokes or funny stories.
You may need to prepare these jokes and stories in advance.
You also need to check her taste in humor and what kind of jokes she likes.
Always remember what interests women the most is what most men may consider as nothing.
Do your best to understand how she thinks.
Pay attention when she talks whether to you or to her female friends.
The above points are tips to get you started with your afterplay skills.
Try each one of these tips out.
Be cautious though.
What works for others may not work for you.
Once you find one or more tips suitable, elaborate on them creatively.
