Getting Your Ex Back - Do Not Stay Friends With Your Ex
I've been dumped, what's next? If you have been dumped, you more than likely at this given point want to get your ex back.
What do you do if your ex is dating someone else? Even if your ex is not currently dating anyone, rest assured, this will more than likely happen.
It is not exactly fun viewing your ex with someone else.
It is even worse if you want your ex back.
Rebound relationships When your ex engages into another relationship shortly after ending the relationship with you is typically called a "rebound" relationship.
Most of these relationships are short-lived and more times to none end as fast as they began however, sometimes if chance proves lucky, they will work out in the end with possibly ending with engagement or marriage.
Do not remain friends Do not remain friends with your ex if you want them back.
If you are coming out of a long-term relationship with your ex and the breakup was amicable, your ex very well might want to remain friends.
There is much psychological reasoning why this should not occur.
Firstly, this will mean that your ex will depend on your from an emotional level.
Your ex will need the understanding as well as comfort they feel you can offer.
This is not healthy for you for you still care about them.
Is it possible to be in love with two people at the same time? Sometimes it is possible for your ex to be in love with two different people at the same time.
Some do not believe this is possible however, I believe this is possible but on different levels.
You do not want to place yourself in a situation with your ex while trying to get them back of having to compete with someone else for their love.
This is not emotionally healthy for anyone.
If you ex is proclaiming love for not only you but someone else, you have to declare to your ex that they have to choose otherwise, you are taking yourself out of the dysfunctional triangle.
The experts will agree that is most definitely possible to be in love with different people simultaneously.
The ex might be in a relationship with someone else while experiencing the honeymoon stage of the relationship.
Everything is new and exciting during this stage but unfortunately, your ex still maintains an emotional attachment to you.
Your ex's new relationship is now your rival and you are your ex's safety net.
What this actually means is that you are your ex's backup in case her new relationship falls apart.
Do you really know what you need to know about handling breakups? Most people feel confident of their ability to deal with breakups but until they have actually experienced the situation up, close and personal, they soon realize that their basic knowledge is not enough to aid them with the breakup of a relationship.
Some exes want to "remain friends" so they can turn one lover into two lovers.
Do not become your ex's therapist If you want a genuine shot at getting your ex back you must stop offering emotional support and disappear from the picture.
Let your ex's new relationship flourish or burn in flames.
Either way, you should stay out of the picture.
By remaining in the picture, you are giving your ex time to get over the relationship with you as their new relationship is growing more strong on a daily basis.
This will result in your chances of getting your ex back to disappear.
What do you do if your ex is dating someone else? Even if your ex is not currently dating anyone, rest assured, this will more than likely happen.
It is not exactly fun viewing your ex with someone else.
It is even worse if you want your ex back.
Rebound relationships When your ex engages into another relationship shortly after ending the relationship with you is typically called a "rebound" relationship.
Most of these relationships are short-lived and more times to none end as fast as they began however, sometimes if chance proves lucky, they will work out in the end with possibly ending with engagement or marriage.
Do not remain friends Do not remain friends with your ex if you want them back.
If you are coming out of a long-term relationship with your ex and the breakup was amicable, your ex very well might want to remain friends.
There is much psychological reasoning why this should not occur.
Firstly, this will mean that your ex will depend on your from an emotional level.
Your ex will need the understanding as well as comfort they feel you can offer.
This is not healthy for you for you still care about them.
Is it possible to be in love with two people at the same time? Sometimes it is possible for your ex to be in love with two different people at the same time.
Some do not believe this is possible however, I believe this is possible but on different levels.
You do not want to place yourself in a situation with your ex while trying to get them back of having to compete with someone else for their love.
This is not emotionally healthy for anyone.
If you ex is proclaiming love for not only you but someone else, you have to declare to your ex that they have to choose otherwise, you are taking yourself out of the dysfunctional triangle.
The experts will agree that is most definitely possible to be in love with different people simultaneously.
The ex might be in a relationship with someone else while experiencing the honeymoon stage of the relationship.
Everything is new and exciting during this stage but unfortunately, your ex still maintains an emotional attachment to you.
Your ex's new relationship is now your rival and you are your ex's safety net.
What this actually means is that you are your ex's backup in case her new relationship falls apart.
Do you really know what you need to know about handling breakups? Most people feel confident of their ability to deal with breakups but until they have actually experienced the situation up, close and personal, they soon realize that their basic knowledge is not enough to aid them with the breakup of a relationship.
Some exes want to "remain friends" so they can turn one lover into two lovers.
Do not become your ex's therapist If you want a genuine shot at getting your ex back you must stop offering emotional support and disappear from the picture.
Let your ex's new relationship flourish or burn in flames.
Either way, you should stay out of the picture.
By remaining in the picture, you are giving your ex time to get over the relationship with you as their new relationship is growing more strong on a daily basis.
This will result in your chances of getting your ex back to disappear.
