Let"s Talk Sex with Married Couples
Think back to the days when you courting to the days when your relationship was new and all was "lovey-dovey" and it felt as if you were walking on air, and your mind was filled with thoughts like, "I wonder what he's doing now", or, "I wonder if she's thinking of me too." Those were the days! Right?
The intimacy was fantastic and so arousing, when your guy would do his hardest to convince you he was the tentative type by spending hours upon hours of showering you with tender loving care, whispering sweet nothings in your ear as he massaged your feet and made you feel like the only woman in the world.
Fast forward to the current day and maybe you have forgotten the loving caring days, or they are just a foggy memory that you haven't thought about for many a year. What happened? Did life get in way? If you would like to rekindle the flames of hot passion with your significant other -- read on, because this is one article that you will be glad your read -- then read it again with your partner.
It's a well known fact that men and women are different, and even more so when it comes to sex. Guys know sex is great and it doesn't take a lot to get in the mood, for men, that is. Of course, your woman may be up for a "roll in the hay" or a so called quickie now and again, but wouldn't it be best if both partners enjoyed love making just as much, so both would want second helpings or would be more willing another time?
On the subject of quickies - it might be fun to, let's say, interact while the female in the relationship is at the kitchen sink, but women do need to be aroused, they need to feel wanted and they like to be told so. They should be appreciated as a woman likes to be - she may be the one who runs the home, manages the finances, care for your kids and everything else, but treat her with respect and make her feel like a woman! It isn't difficult. And for both men and women - if you find it difficult to talk about feelings, needs and desires - try the following tips.
Cuddle each other, a real nice hug. Enjoy it. You don't need any special reason, but it is proven that this stimulates a woman's sexual attentiveness and takes it to a higher level, because the female hormone Oxytocin, which heightens sexual arousal in women, is increased. Once you are relaxed, and you are wrapped in close, tell your man how you love being in his arms, or how it is you do feel - men like to be validated, and it won't take much for him to want to see what else he can do to please you.
Every guy offers his woman a massage, a rub down of a foot massage when he wants to get his woman in the mood for a bit of 1 on 1 - and it a good idea to tell him how much you like "so and so" the way he did it last time - he'll do it again.
Men like to be encouraged and having a partner confirm she likes to make out by actually saying some thing like, for example, "This always gets me hot, when you kiss me like that" is something that turns a guy on and makes him want to please his woman instead of just himself.
It is easy to suggest a guy do something, but it can have the same effect as having a bucket of ice cold water thrown over you, if you choose the wrong words because if you should say something like, "Why don't you do this or that?" in the heat of the moment, it could be interpreted as criticism - even though that was probably furthest from your mind. You could suggest your guy did the same thing he did last time you made love because that felt really great! Imagine what mileage you'd get out of a steamy and sexy comment like, "Oooh, that feels so good!" or just some genuine heavy breathing goes a long way.
Sometimes a white lie works wonders - especially if you don't know how to get started or you don't know how to word what you want to say. You could tell your partner that you had a naughty dream about him or her, and just feed him, or her, a few titbits and let them coax it out of you and say what happened to you and how you were turned on by it - nature will no doubt takes its course.
The day after send your partner a text message or e-mail and just briefly mention the previous day or nights events and say how good it was. Take it from here and have fun!
The intimacy was fantastic and so arousing, when your guy would do his hardest to convince you he was the tentative type by spending hours upon hours of showering you with tender loving care, whispering sweet nothings in your ear as he massaged your feet and made you feel like the only woman in the world.
Fast forward to the current day and maybe you have forgotten the loving caring days, or they are just a foggy memory that you haven't thought about for many a year. What happened? Did life get in way? If you would like to rekindle the flames of hot passion with your significant other -- read on, because this is one article that you will be glad your read -- then read it again with your partner.
It's a well known fact that men and women are different, and even more so when it comes to sex. Guys know sex is great and it doesn't take a lot to get in the mood, for men, that is. Of course, your woman may be up for a "roll in the hay" or a so called quickie now and again, but wouldn't it be best if both partners enjoyed love making just as much, so both would want second helpings or would be more willing another time?
On the subject of quickies - it might be fun to, let's say, interact while the female in the relationship is at the kitchen sink, but women do need to be aroused, they need to feel wanted and they like to be told so. They should be appreciated as a woman likes to be - she may be the one who runs the home, manages the finances, care for your kids and everything else, but treat her with respect and make her feel like a woman! It isn't difficult. And for both men and women - if you find it difficult to talk about feelings, needs and desires - try the following tips.
Cuddle each other, a real nice hug. Enjoy it. You don't need any special reason, but it is proven that this stimulates a woman's sexual attentiveness and takes it to a higher level, because the female hormone Oxytocin, which heightens sexual arousal in women, is increased. Once you are relaxed, and you are wrapped in close, tell your man how you love being in his arms, or how it is you do feel - men like to be validated, and it won't take much for him to want to see what else he can do to please you.
Every guy offers his woman a massage, a rub down of a foot massage when he wants to get his woman in the mood for a bit of 1 on 1 - and it a good idea to tell him how much you like "so and so" the way he did it last time - he'll do it again.
Men like to be encouraged and having a partner confirm she likes to make out by actually saying some thing like, for example, "This always gets me hot, when you kiss me like that" is something that turns a guy on and makes him want to please his woman instead of just himself.
It is easy to suggest a guy do something, but it can have the same effect as having a bucket of ice cold water thrown over you, if you choose the wrong words because if you should say something like, "Why don't you do this or that?" in the heat of the moment, it could be interpreted as criticism - even though that was probably furthest from your mind. You could suggest your guy did the same thing he did last time you made love because that felt really great! Imagine what mileage you'd get out of a steamy and sexy comment like, "Oooh, that feels so good!" or just some genuine heavy breathing goes a long way.
Sometimes a white lie works wonders - especially if you don't know how to get started or you don't know how to word what you want to say. You could tell your partner that you had a naughty dream about him or her, and just feed him, or her, a few titbits and let them coax it out of you and say what happened to you and how you were turned on by it - nature will no doubt takes its course.
The day after send your partner a text message or e-mail and just briefly mention the previous day or nights events and say how good it was. Take it from here and have fun!
