Relationships can be so darn complicated sometimes.
Don't you agree? One day it's this way, and the next day it's that way.
People say one thing, then do another-no wonder it can be so confusing.
Sometimes it's just easier to give in and just listen to them! So if your aim is getting an ex back again, here are a few secrets you may want to try...
It's hard to believe that people will actually say what they really mean; this may be why we may have such a hard time with listening.
Really listening to a person can be difficult especially if we don't want to hear what they are saying.
Listening can be tricky also when we don't understand what the other person is trying to say.
Let's use this example for the sake of argument.
When two people have been dating and one of the partners say they need, 'more space' it doesn't mean that they don't love you.
They may be afraid that the relationship is going too fast for them.
They may want to get to know you better before they commit to anything further.
By all means, give them the benefit of the doubt! It is here that the true test of a real and authentic relationship can develop.
Sometimes both people aren't on the same page in the relationship--regardless of the reason-but there still may be a definite and lifelong future awaiting them.
Showing jealousy may show that person that you are not secure.
They may just want what they originally asked for-space.
Give it to them! If you asked them for something and they did the opposite, what would you think of them? Know that listening in relationships can always tell you a few things you may need to know down the road also.
Did this person tell you the same thing they told to a line of people before you? See, I know you're listening now!