Are You Ruining Your Relationship? - Avoid These Mistakes
Are you ruining your relationship? When a guy suddenly leaves, do you know what happened? Are you sure he's to blame, and not you? If you've ever found yourself facing a sudden heartbreak that seemed to come out of nowhere, read on to see if you might have been making any of these common mistakes that women make that often ruin relationships.
Don't lose yourself in the relationship.
Many women get so wrapped up in their new guy that they completely abandon their old lives.
Keep in touch with your friends, and don't drop your hobbies and activities at the beginning of a relationship.
The early stages of a relationship are so heady and intoxicating, that often all you can think about is him.
It's easy to lose yourself in the high of someone new.
But if you lose yourself to become part of your guy, you will become less attractive to him, and you'll feel lost if the relationship ends.
Keep in touch with the parts of your life that don't depend on your man.
Don't smother him with sweetness.
He's already got a mother.
He doesn't need to be showered with attention.
Many women hate to admit it, but when a guy is too nice, he becomes less attractive.
When a guy is too available to you, you lose some respect for him, don't you? Well, you can ruin your relationship by being the same way.
If you drop your plans to be around him all the time, constantly bring him gifts, and tell him how you can't be without him, he's going to get restless.
He probably was attracted to your single self because you were fun and independent.
If you start acting like a devoted puppy, it might be cute for a while, but it will get old.
Don't lay your agenda on him.
You might have decided that you're ready to commit to him, but that doesn't mean that he's ready.
Don't try to get him to commit to you by putting pressure on him.
Men are understandably afraid of being tied down to someone who ruins all their fun.
New relationships are fragile and precarious.
You might want to push him into commitment as hard as you can, but keep a little distance so that you don't ruin your relationship before it gets started.
Don't lose yourself in the relationship.
Many women get so wrapped up in their new guy that they completely abandon their old lives.
Keep in touch with your friends, and don't drop your hobbies and activities at the beginning of a relationship.
The early stages of a relationship are so heady and intoxicating, that often all you can think about is him.
It's easy to lose yourself in the high of someone new.
But if you lose yourself to become part of your guy, you will become less attractive to him, and you'll feel lost if the relationship ends.
Keep in touch with the parts of your life that don't depend on your man.
Don't smother him with sweetness.
He's already got a mother.
He doesn't need to be showered with attention.
Many women hate to admit it, but when a guy is too nice, he becomes less attractive.
When a guy is too available to you, you lose some respect for him, don't you? Well, you can ruin your relationship by being the same way.
If you drop your plans to be around him all the time, constantly bring him gifts, and tell him how you can't be without him, he's going to get restless.
He probably was attracted to your single self because you were fun and independent.
If you start acting like a devoted puppy, it might be cute for a while, but it will get old.
Don't lay your agenda on him.
You might have decided that you're ready to commit to him, but that doesn't mean that he's ready.
Don't try to get him to commit to you by putting pressure on him.
Men are understandably afraid of being tied down to someone who ruins all their fun.
New relationships are fragile and precarious.
You might want to push him into commitment as hard as you can, but keep a little distance so that you don't ruin your relationship before it gets started.
