5 Stupid Mistakes Men Make in Bed (DO Avoid These Proven Ways To Turn Her Off)
Are you dating someone new...
and looking forward to an amazing, erotic sex life? Are you wondering whether or not your girlfriend, wife or lover is as amped UP about sex as you are? Do you ever wonder if you are doing "everything" right between the sheets? If you are anything like the hundreds of thousands of men who have read our articles on sex, lust and becoming a superhero in the sack...
the truth is, you've probably said YES to at least one of the above.
The funny thing? The REAL secret to great sex is not as much as what you ARE doing...
as much as it is what you aren't? Said differently - Are you making these mistakes in bed? Let's take a look at some of the top bedroom "blunders" that most women agree are a huge turn off, and how to make sure YOU aren't doing any of these mood killers for her.
1 - Asking and Contrasting: NEVER ask your girl during sex how you compare to an ex.
Not only will she NOT give you an honest answer...
it's one of the quickest ways to spoil sex for US, and bring up memories of someone else sexually, at a time she'd much rather be concentrating on YOU.
2 - Even worse? Never compare HER out loud against one of your previous partners.
The right way? If you want her to do something differently - just ask! The wrong way? NEVER tell her that " so and so" used to do THIS, and you really loved it.
Trust me, she may try it to make you happy in the moment, but her desire factor has already taken a major nose dive.
3 - DO ask her what she likes and what feels best for her.
DON'T create a running dialogue about what you are doing, how it feels moment to moment, and certainly don't keep asking her if you are doing it right! Why? While all women DO love to be communicated with during sex and DO think that's a huge emotional turn on, the truth is...
some men are so insecure about their sexual skill that it becomes more of a distraction to stroke his ego, rather than enjoy the erotic energy of the experience.
Your best bet? Wait until sex is over...
and THEN ask whether or not she liked this or that, and how she may like it better next time.
(THAT is what most women will find REALLY sexy!) 4 - Don't forget about foreplay! A woman's body is entirely different than a man's and requires much different type of sexual stimulation to achieve climax.
For a woman, a good 10 minutes of foreplay BEFORE sex can be the difference between a mind bending orgasm, and a ho hum, forgettable experience that ended far too fast.
5 - Lastly, NEVER ask about size and NEVER, ever compare yourself biologically to another partner she may have had in the past.
If there is one evergreen embarrassing thing that men do during sex that is PROVEN to turn us off, it's asking questions about endowment or anatomy.
The truth is, if you aren't satisfying her in that way...
she WILL let you know, either by what she says, or just as often, what she DOESN'T:-)
and looking forward to an amazing, erotic sex life? Are you wondering whether or not your girlfriend, wife or lover is as amped UP about sex as you are? Do you ever wonder if you are doing "everything" right between the sheets? If you are anything like the hundreds of thousands of men who have read our articles on sex, lust and becoming a superhero in the sack...
the truth is, you've probably said YES to at least one of the above.
The funny thing? The REAL secret to great sex is not as much as what you ARE doing...
as much as it is what you aren't? Said differently - Are you making these mistakes in bed? Let's take a look at some of the top bedroom "blunders" that most women agree are a huge turn off, and how to make sure YOU aren't doing any of these mood killers for her.
1 - Asking and Contrasting: NEVER ask your girl during sex how you compare to an ex.
Not only will she NOT give you an honest answer...
it's one of the quickest ways to spoil sex for US, and bring up memories of someone else sexually, at a time she'd much rather be concentrating on YOU.
2 - Even worse? Never compare HER out loud against one of your previous partners.
The right way? If you want her to do something differently - just ask! The wrong way? NEVER tell her that " so and so" used to do THIS, and you really loved it.
Trust me, she may try it to make you happy in the moment, but her desire factor has already taken a major nose dive.
3 - DO ask her what she likes and what feels best for her.
DON'T create a running dialogue about what you are doing, how it feels moment to moment, and certainly don't keep asking her if you are doing it right! Why? While all women DO love to be communicated with during sex and DO think that's a huge emotional turn on, the truth is...
some men are so insecure about their sexual skill that it becomes more of a distraction to stroke his ego, rather than enjoy the erotic energy of the experience.
Your best bet? Wait until sex is over...
and THEN ask whether or not she liked this or that, and how she may like it better next time.
(THAT is what most women will find REALLY sexy!) 4 - Don't forget about foreplay! A woman's body is entirely different than a man's and requires much different type of sexual stimulation to achieve climax.
For a woman, a good 10 minutes of foreplay BEFORE sex can be the difference between a mind bending orgasm, and a ho hum, forgettable experience that ended far too fast.
5 - Lastly, NEVER ask about size and NEVER, ever compare yourself biologically to another partner she may have had in the past.
If there is one evergreen embarrassing thing that men do during sex that is PROVEN to turn us off, it's asking questions about endowment or anatomy.
The truth is, if you aren't satisfying her in that way...
she WILL let you know, either by what she says, or just as often, what she DOESN'T:-)
