How To Know If She Just Wants To Be Friends
OK guys, let me pose you a quick question. The seduction world is full of many nice surprises, but, like most things in life, it also has it's dark areas that no community member wants to go, if they can help it. Well luckily for you, you CAN help it, and I'm going to be talking about one of these dark area's today, but, if the worse came to worse and you ended up there, would you know it for certain?
I am of course talking about the dreaded 'Friend Zone'.
I recently received an e-mail from one of my website visitors asking "How do I know that I am in the friend-zone?" and it got me thinking. There are hundreds of articles in the seduction books and on the community forums and websites about how to get out of the friend-zone, but there isn't really anything that focuses on signs that you are IN the friend-zone. It's like us guru's just assumed it was plainly obvious, which, when you are going all out for a target, these signs may not be as obvious if you don't know what you are looking out for.
1 - Is your target of interest talking about other male relationships? This one is 50-50, as I'll explain, but as soon as she brings up other male relationships the red-alert siren should be flashing a dim shade of scarlet. Sure, woman, hit us with shit tests to see how we respond, the jealousy test included, so it could be just a shit test, which can easily be passed of course. If it's a small comment regarding a guy she used to see, or a personal friend, then it isn't really anything to worry about, providing this guy doesn't become a regular feature in your conversations. What you are mainly looking out for is conversations regarding ex-relationships, how she misses her ex-boyfriends or even if she is complaining and seeking help regarding a guy she is seeing AS WELL as you. If that ever happens, you've been friend-zoned.
2 - Is there a lack of flirting when you two speak or meet? If you are not regularly flirting with each other then you are not just shooting yourself in the foot, but blowing it off with an AK-47. A lack of sexual chemistry means you are on the stairway to masturbation as far as the relationship with that woman is concerned. Don't EVER stop flirting with a woman when you two are currently dating or you will be friend-zoned faster than you can polish off a McDonalds. If you are reading this article wondering weather the woman you are currently seeing is friend-zoning your ass at this very minute, then whip out your phone and send her a flirtatious message.
3 - Is there a lack of kino when you two meet? I should really just copy the above paragraph and replace 'flirting' with 'kino'. The exact same principles apply, in fact, do you know what? If you are not regularly using kino with each other then you are not just shooting yourself in the foot, but blowing it off with an AK-47. A lack of kino (the art of touching) means you are on the stairway to kinoing nothing but your own dick as far as the relationship with that woman is concerned. Don't EVER stop using kino with a woman when you two are currently dating or you will be friend-zoned faster than you can polish off a McDonalds. If you are reading this article wondering weather the woman you are currently seeing is friend-zoning your ass at this very minute, then ask yourself: Are you using kino with your woman? Are you receiving kino back? If the answer to either is no, then get on it before you get friend-zoned my friend.
4 - Is there ANYTHING sexual happening with you two? This one is a no-brainer and something you should all be able to figure out, but i'll spell it out for you anyway. If you two are kissing regularly (by kissing I don't mean the 'you're such a great friend peck'.) or having sex then it's pretty safe to say you're in the safety zone. Keep up the good work. If not, then re-read bullet points 2 and 3. If you have answered 'yes' to those, all is not lost and it's time for you to man up and kiss you're girl. If the answer is no, things aren't looking good, and the bright red-siren is accompanied by a loud, deafening noise.
If you believe you are in the friend-zone, I have another article on this website which will show you exactly how to get out of it, so the two of you can get sexual.
For more free articles from myself and other seduction guru's, check out my website, The Seduction Box
I am of course talking about the dreaded 'Friend Zone'.
I recently received an e-mail from one of my website visitors asking "How do I know that I am in the friend-zone?" and it got me thinking. There are hundreds of articles in the seduction books and on the community forums and websites about how to get out of the friend-zone, but there isn't really anything that focuses on signs that you are IN the friend-zone. It's like us guru's just assumed it was plainly obvious, which, when you are going all out for a target, these signs may not be as obvious if you don't know what you are looking out for.
1 - Is your target of interest talking about other male relationships? This one is 50-50, as I'll explain, but as soon as she brings up other male relationships the red-alert siren should be flashing a dim shade of scarlet. Sure, woman, hit us with shit tests to see how we respond, the jealousy test included, so it could be just a shit test, which can easily be passed of course. If it's a small comment regarding a guy she used to see, or a personal friend, then it isn't really anything to worry about, providing this guy doesn't become a regular feature in your conversations. What you are mainly looking out for is conversations regarding ex-relationships, how she misses her ex-boyfriends or even if she is complaining and seeking help regarding a guy she is seeing AS WELL as you. If that ever happens, you've been friend-zoned.
2 - Is there a lack of flirting when you two speak or meet? If you are not regularly flirting with each other then you are not just shooting yourself in the foot, but blowing it off with an AK-47. A lack of sexual chemistry means you are on the stairway to masturbation as far as the relationship with that woman is concerned. Don't EVER stop flirting with a woman when you two are currently dating or you will be friend-zoned faster than you can polish off a McDonalds. If you are reading this article wondering weather the woman you are currently seeing is friend-zoning your ass at this very minute, then whip out your phone and send her a flirtatious message.
3 - Is there a lack of kino when you two meet? I should really just copy the above paragraph and replace 'flirting' with 'kino'. The exact same principles apply, in fact, do you know what? If you are not regularly using kino with each other then you are not just shooting yourself in the foot, but blowing it off with an AK-47. A lack of kino (the art of touching) means you are on the stairway to kinoing nothing but your own dick as far as the relationship with that woman is concerned. Don't EVER stop using kino with a woman when you two are currently dating or you will be friend-zoned faster than you can polish off a McDonalds. If you are reading this article wondering weather the woman you are currently seeing is friend-zoning your ass at this very minute, then ask yourself: Are you using kino with your woman? Are you receiving kino back? If the answer to either is no, then get on it before you get friend-zoned my friend.
4 - Is there ANYTHING sexual happening with you two? This one is a no-brainer and something you should all be able to figure out, but i'll spell it out for you anyway. If you two are kissing regularly (by kissing I don't mean the 'you're such a great friend peck'.) or having sex then it's pretty safe to say you're in the safety zone. Keep up the good work. If not, then re-read bullet points 2 and 3. If you have answered 'yes' to those, all is not lost and it's time for you to man up and kiss you're girl. If the answer is no, things aren't looking good, and the bright red-siren is accompanied by a loud, deafening noise.
If you believe you are in the friend-zone, I have another article on this website which will show you exactly how to get out of it, so the two of you can get sexual.
For more free articles from myself and other seduction guru's, check out my website, The Seduction Box
