Psychology Isn"t So Boring After All, Because Guess What? It Can Help You Pull Your Ex Back!
Before we get started, let me warn you that psychological tricks often end up twisting your own mind as much as the intended recipient.
That said, there is a certain amount of delicious payback-day feeling when you play this game on your ex.
Here are a few psychological tactics which will help you pull your ex back...
My heart is just fine...
Be immune to what your ex wants now, and simply act as if it doesn't affect you at all.
Start by pretending you are no longer heart-broken over being dumped.
Pick up your life and get back to your normal routine.
Wear nice clothes and make it a point to look good and feel good.
If you think so, then so will others, including your ex.
And flaunt it in front of you ex.
Your ex hates to see you happy...
When your ex find that you're feeling great while your ex is still feeling the pain of separation, it makes your ex feel like a loser, and the only way to rectify that will be for your ex to get you back.
This may sound sick, but your ex literally hates to see you happy.
At the end of the day, your ex will be really envious the instant that he/she sees you being really happy.
They expect you to be in pain, and taking the breakup badly, because it's flattering to them, but the minute you show them otherwise (by acting happy), your ex will be flabbergasted! Beat your ex in their own game...
What better way to beat your ex in their own game than to start taking an active interest in all the things your ex enjoys doing - things which you never liked all that much.
The fact that you're bumping into each other while jogging or at an art gallery or in a restaurant will make your ex think about you.
You also get brownie points for taking the trouble to do things your ex likes, which is a good icebreaker, even if your ex realizes that it's a ploy.
Flirt with someone openly...
Yet another way is to make your ex insanely jealous by dating or flirting with one of your ex's close friends.
No one can bear seeing a former lover in the arms of a close friend.
Of course, if you take it too far, you could land up in even more trouble, so make sure you keep things under control.
And lastly, get yourself a moral blank check - That's like a guarantee of good behavior provide by someone else.
The reason your ex broke up is because it looked impossible that you might change for the better.
To make your ex reconsider, convince someone close to your ex to vouch for you - to say that you will not make the same mistakes again, and your good behavior is guaranteed by this close friend.
You should remember that if you screw up again, not only will your ex dump you, but it will also strain relations between your ex and the close friend who vouched for you.
That said, there is a certain amount of delicious payback-day feeling when you play this game on your ex.
Here are a few psychological tactics which will help you pull your ex back...
My heart is just fine...
Be immune to what your ex wants now, and simply act as if it doesn't affect you at all.
Start by pretending you are no longer heart-broken over being dumped.
Pick up your life and get back to your normal routine.
Wear nice clothes and make it a point to look good and feel good.
If you think so, then so will others, including your ex.
And flaunt it in front of you ex.
Your ex hates to see you happy...
When your ex find that you're feeling great while your ex is still feeling the pain of separation, it makes your ex feel like a loser, and the only way to rectify that will be for your ex to get you back.
This may sound sick, but your ex literally hates to see you happy.
At the end of the day, your ex will be really envious the instant that he/she sees you being really happy.
They expect you to be in pain, and taking the breakup badly, because it's flattering to them, but the minute you show them otherwise (by acting happy), your ex will be flabbergasted! Beat your ex in their own game...
What better way to beat your ex in their own game than to start taking an active interest in all the things your ex enjoys doing - things which you never liked all that much.
The fact that you're bumping into each other while jogging or at an art gallery or in a restaurant will make your ex think about you.
You also get brownie points for taking the trouble to do things your ex likes, which is a good icebreaker, even if your ex realizes that it's a ploy.
Flirt with someone openly...
Yet another way is to make your ex insanely jealous by dating or flirting with one of your ex's close friends.
No one can bear seeing a former lover in the arms of a close friend.
Of course, if you take it too far, you could land up in even more trouble, so make sure you keep things under control.
And lastly, get yourself a moral blank check - That's like a guarantee of good behavior provide by someone else.
The reason your ex broke up is because it looked impossible that you might change for the better.
To make your ex reconsider, convince someone close to your ex to vouch for you - to say that you will not make the same mistakes again, and your good behavior is guaranteed by this close friend.
You should remember that if you screw up again, not only will your ex dump you, but it will also strain relations between your ex and the close friend who vouched for you.
