Trust is Important
Ladies, there is nothing a guy can not stand any more than having you not trust him.
Just because you have a thought, or you think something may of happened, do not go out and accuse your guy of being unfaithful.
While I am not saying that if you have evidence that he is, make sure that before you say anything you actually have legitimate evidence.
Here are some tips to help you avoid breaking his heart and making him believe you can not trust him.
1.
Although they may be your friends, do not believe everything that comes out of their mouth.
If they say something like "I saw your boyfriend with another girl at the mall" that does not mean he is cheating.
He could have family over, may of met a family friend, a school time friend or a coworker.
Your friend is doing nothing byt causing trouble, and if you act irrationally and accuse him of doing anything because of something a friend said, then you are doing nothing but breaking his heart, saying all he has done for you is nothing, and devaluing the relationship.
2.
You should allow him to have some friends that are girls.
He lets you have guy friends, so why should not he be allowed to have some female friends? He should be working and making a living, so he is going to form bonds with coworkers and come in contact with women every day.
He has told you he loves you, so if he says it and he has not left you or hurt you, then why should not you trust him talking or being friends with other women? 3.
Yes as a woman you may have these feelings sometimes that something is going on, but do not act on nothing.
If you do not love him, then leave him, but if you love him, do not jump to conclusions based upon nothing.
Make sure you have real evidence, dreams and feelings d not constitute evidence, imaginary visions do not count either.
You need to have actually seen him in the act, caught him in the act, have a photo as proof of the act...
4.
You should use some common sense.
If he had just spent Christmas with you or had just taken you out to dinner, bought you flowers, kissed you all night, and told you he loves you, chances are he is not cheating.
Why would he spend that much time, money and emotions on you if he did not love you? After he treats you so respectfully, do not go out and hurt him moments later.
Trust is important in a relationship.
If you find the right guy you should not have anything to worry about.
And yes, you can tell good guys from bad guys, just because he is attractive does not mean you should ignore the truth about him, it is ALWAYS possible to tell the good from the bad.
Do not hurt a good guy because of your trust issues, if you have them, follow these tips and work with him to get things handled.
Just because you have a thought, or you think something may of happened, do not go out and accuse your guy of being unfaithful.
While I am not saying that if you have evidence that he is, make sure that before you say anything you actually have legitimate evidence.
Here are some tips to help you avoid breaking his heart and making him believe you can not trust him.
1.
Although they may be your friends, do not believe everything that comes out of their mouth.
If they say something like "I saw your boyfriend with another girl at the mall" that does not mean he is cheating.
He could have family over, may of met a family friend, a school time friend or a coworker.
Your friend is doing nothing byt causing trouble, and if you act irrationally and accuse him of doing anything because of something a friend said, then you are doing nothing but breaking his heart, saying all he has done for you is nothing, and devaluing the relationship.
2.
You should allow him to have some friends that are girls.
He lets you have guy friends, so why should not he be allowed to have some female friends? He should be working and making a living, so he is going to form bonds with coworkers and come in contact with women every day.
He has told you he loves you, so if he says it and he has not left you or hurt you, then why should not you trust him talking or being friends with other women? 3.
Yes as a woman you may have these feelings sometimes that something is going on, but do not act on nothing.
If you do not love him, then leave him, but if you love him, do not jump to conclusions based upon nothing.
Make sure you have real evidence, dreams and feelings d not constitute evidence, imaginary visions do not count either.
You need to have actually seen him in the act, caught him in the act, have a photo as proof of the act...
4.
You should use some common sense.
If he had just spent Christmas with you or had just taken you out to dinner, bought you flowers, kissed you all night, and told you he loves you, chances are he is not cheating.
Why would he spend that much time, money and emotions on you if he did not love you? After he treats you so respectfully, do not go out and hurt him moments later.
Trust is important in a relationship.
If you find the right guy you should not have anything to worry about.
And yes, you can tell good guys from bad guys, just because he is attractive does not mean you should ignore the truth about him, it is ALWAYS possible to tell the good from the bad.
Do not hurt a good guy because of your trust issues, if you have them, follow these tips and work with him to get things handled.
