Make Him Fall in Love – A Little Manipulation can Go a Long Way
Why do women have to push so hard to make a man fall in love? Are men really that fearful of making a commitment to one woman? What is a woman to do if she wants to finally win her man's love and devotion? Following is a little secret that can help you make your man fall in love.
Men are slow and they are careful. They do not advance into love like women do. They take their time, they make sure that they are not making a mistake, and they feel the pressure of society telling them that they should play the field as long and as heartily as possible.
Men do not just "fall" into love. They have to follow a process to get there and a lot of this process is governed by a timeline. Basically, a man will not fall in love with a woman until he feels that he has invested enough time in the relationship. He must feel secure in the fact that he is not moving too fast and that he making a decision that will work for him.
Therefore, your secret is to speed up this perceived timeline and make him think that he has known you much longer than he actually has. Multiply his memories of time spent together and his timeline will be put into fast motion. The idea is mini-dates.
When you and your guy go out, don't just hang out in a single place. Bring him around to three, four, or even five different places. Thirty to forty-five minutes per stop is plenty long enough; the idea is to make sure that he will remember you in that location. Whenever he thinks about places you have been, he has so many thoughts to recall. Even though no additional time has actually elapsed, it will seem to him as though it has. Once he realizes that his time investment meets his own standards, it will be easier to make him fall in love. He will make the decision to move forward and will not even realize that there has been a little touch of manipulation at work.
Men are slow and they are careful. They do not advance into love like women do. They take their time, they make sure that they are not making a mistake, and they feel the pressure of society telling them that they should play the field as long and as heartily as possible.
Men do not just "fall" into love. They have to follow a process to get there and a lot of this process is governed by a timeline. Basically, a man will not fall in love with a woman until he feels that he has invested enough time in the relationship. He must feel secure in the fact that he is not moving too fast and that he making a decision that will work for him.
Therefore, your secret is to speed up this perceived timeline and make him think that he has known you much longer than he actually has. Multiply his memories of time spent together and his timeline will be put into fast motion. The idea is mini-dates.
When you and your guy go out, don't just hang out in a single place. Bring him around to three, four, or even five different places. Thirty to forty-five minutes per stop is plenty long enough; the idea is to make sure that he will remember you in that location. Whenever he thinks about places you have been, he has so many thoughts to recall. Even though no additional time has actually elapsed, it will seem to him as though it has. Once he realizes that his time investment meets his own standards, it will be easier to make him fall in love. He will make the decision to move forward and will not even realize that there has been a little touch of manipulation at work.
