Why Your Girlfriend Left - 3 Possible Reasons
Generally speaking, girlfriends don't just decide to break up with their boyfriends for no reason.
I know that women sometimes may not be the easiest creatures to understand, and some decisions may not make sense to the male mind, but it's actually pretty rare that a woman does anything without reason...
and when it comes to breaking up with you that reason is likely something you did or didn't do.
Luckily for you, I'm here to help you figure out what it was you did or didn't do, and possibly even fix it and get her back.
Now, the list of problems women have with their men is a mile and a half long, but there are three specific things that usually pop up more often than not as the culprits for a failed relationship.
If your girl wasn't one of those kind souls who lists your faults in lengthy detail, I'm going to list them off so you can see if maybe one of them rings a bell.
1) The ultimate shatterer of relationships is one you really aught to know better than do...
but time and again guys do it anyways.
Most women simply will NOT tolerate their guys fooling around with other women.
I mean, no durr right?It's a no-brainer...
but believe it or not, there are folks who go "what did I do?" when it's quite obvious that you just couldn't keep your pants on.
Honestly, if yours is a relationship broken apart by your own idiot adultery...
I can't summon up a whole lot of sympathy for your situation.
I suppose even REALLY STUPID things can be honest mistakes, but the forecast on getting back together ain't looking good for ya pal.
When someone cheats on you, it really really hurts...
relationships taken out this way are the hardest kinds to heal, because they end in the most emotionally damaging way.
If there's any hope at all for a reunion, you need to be really gentle about it and NEVER CHEAT AGAIN.
2) Another thing guys can mess up on is not giving their woman the emotional support that she needs to be getting from her relationship with you.
Women are built more on the side of their emotions, and if she doesn't feel as loved as she really desires to be, problems can brew.
At least healing this is easier than if you cheated...
a lot easier.
All women are a little different, but it shouldn't be too difficult to find the things that make her feel truly happy and cared for.
Pay more attention to her, and really listen.
If you're paying close enough attention, she'll tell you what she needs, if not with words.
3) The last thing I'm going to cover today is really a problem that both guys and girls can have in a relationship, and that's when things end up slowing down and getting kind of boring.
If there's not a whole lot of fun in the relationship anymore and the spontaneity is all drained out...
things can kind of fade out.
I'm not saying there's no love anymore, but when there's almost nothing BUT what you feel inside...
sometimes it's not enough.
This is really the most tragic way for a relationship to die out.
I mean, letting things get so stale with the one you love that love doesn't cut it anymore is just inexcusable.
You can find things to do with her that are fun and spontaneous, I have faith in you.
When the fun goes out of being with the one you love, it's just not right.
Have FUN with her!Enjoy your love together, it's just wrong to let it get stale.
Well, these are just the main things that can help a relationship along towards its end.
I'm not saying by any means that this article is the definitive work on relationship killers, but after reading this you should probably have at least an idea of where to start pulling things back together.
Good luck, man!
I know that women sometimes may not be the easiest creatures to understand, and some decisions may not make sense to the male mind, but it's actually pretty rare that a woman does anything without reason...
and when it comes to breaking up with you that reason is likely something you did or didn't do.
Luckily for you, I'm here to help you figure out what it was you did or didn't do, and possibly even fix it and get her back.
Now, the list of problems women have with their men is a mile and a half long, but there are three specific things that usually pop up more often than not as the culprits for a failed relationship.
If your girl wasn't one of those kind souls who lists your faults in lengthy detail, I'm going to list them off so you can see if maybe one of them rings a bell.
1) The ultimate shatterer of relationships is one you really aught to know better than do...
but time and again guys do it anyways.
Most women simply will NOT tolerate their guys fooling around with other women.
I mean, no durr right?It's a no-brainer...
but believe it or not, there are folks who go "what did I do?" when it's quite obvious that you just couldn't keep your pants on.
Honestly, if yours is a relationship broken apart by your own idiot adultery...
I can't summon up a whole lot of sympathy for your situation.
I suppose even REALLY STUPID things can be honest mistakes, but the forecast on getting back together ain't looking good for ya pal.
When someone cheats on you, it really really hurts...
relationships taken out this way are the hardest kinds to heal, because they end in the most emotionally damaging way.
If there's any hope at all for a reunion, you need to be really gentle about it and NEVER CHEAT AGAIN.
2) Another thing guys can mess up on is not giving their woman the emotional support that she needs to be getting from her relationship with you.
Women are built more on the side of their emotions, and if she doesn't feel as loved as she really desires to be, problems can brew.
At least healing this is easier than if you cheated...
a lot easier.
All women are a little different, but it shouldn't be too difficult to find the things that make her feel truly happy and cared for.
Pay more attention to her, and really listen.
If you're paying close enough attention, she'll tell you what she needs, if not with words.
3) The last thing I'm going to cover today is really a problem that both guys and girls can have in a relationship, and that's when things end up slowing down and getting kind of boring.
If there's not a whole lot of fun in the relationship anymore and the spontaneity is all drained out...
things can kind of fade out.
I'm not saying there's no love anymore, but when there's almost nothing BUT what you feel inside...
sometimes it's not enough.
This is really the most tragic way for a relationship to die out.
I mean, letting things get so stale with the one you love that love doesn't cut it anymore is just inexcusable.
You can find things to do with her that are fun and spontaneous, I have faith in you.
When the fun goes out of being with the one you love, it's just not right.
Have FUN with her!Enjoy your love together, it's just wrong to let it get stale.
Well, these are just the main things that can help a relationship along towards its end.
I'm not saying by any means that this article is the definitive work on relationship killers, but after reading this you should probably have at least an idea of where to start pulling things back together.
Good luck, man!
